Not many people like chaos, change, and conflict. Yet, it is inevitable. Therefore, our perspective and reaction to it is vital in determining outcomes. For some, we want to get away from chaos and conflict at all costs. So, we choose to ignore an aggravating situation like it never happened, try to laugh it off, …
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“Change” Reaction
Change can have a dramatic effect on people. It can make someone who is usually complacent and courteous outright aggressive and agitated. However, as we know, change is unavoidable. Therefore, it's vital we learn how to indentify our knee-jerk reactions and respond properly and faithfully to the them: Confusion: When we face change, we typically …
Danger Zone
Throughout my career, I have witnessed three key behaviors lead to the slow fade and decline of many. These are resisting change, pessimism and complacency - and these negative behaviors have destroyed more than just careers. However, there is good news in knowing these self-defeating traits can be changed and even avoided. For the opposite …
Chains To Change
We've all seen enormous elephants at the circus, or other public venues, kept in place with a small chain tied to their leg. Doesn't the elephant realize it can easily break the chain with barely a tug? Yet, it doesn't even try for the same reason many us allow things to keep us chained far …